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FLTINYROCKET · 05-27-2011, 05:01 AM

I have a smaller dick and I can tell you that when I was your age I faced the same situation.

The first issue about when to teller her or let her know depends on the situation. The best way I addressed it was by mentioning it to her while kissing and being upfront about it. Not necessarily being appologetic but having some humor about it helped.

The second issue about cumming fast happened to me also when young. What I learned was to realease some of the pressue by masturbating about 6 hours before going out. That way I would not be too anxious and cum so quickly. Having a lot of foreplay works for me too before penetration. Learning to provide oral satisfaction helps also and your gf should be happy with your overall peformance.

Hope it helps.

Bigman73 · 05-27-2011, 05:02 AM

Hey Cat since you just described how to eat pussy would you mind telling us how you give head ;p

BindiCat · 05-27-2011, 05:14 AM

I don't really have a method.

I just kind of go at it. I do make sure to get my lips and tongue involved, swirl around a lot, deep throat when appropriate (usually when it's not expected), and I don't neglect the balls. So I don't do the whole "I'm going to rigidly bob up and down and that's it" thing, unless that's how the guy wants it done (or unless I feel like getting face-fucked, but that's different since I'm not really doing the moving). Which works out since my jaw doesn't get tired nearly as quick, so I can go for a lot longer. It's a win-win.

Road · 05-27-2011, 05:57 AM

I enjoy reading woman talk about how to work the clit. Turn on!

jimmy dicky · 05-27-2011, 06:21 PM

hot damn! Bindicat i bow before you!

crazy8 · 05-27-2011, 06:31 PM

Some of you make it seem like giving a girl oral is the key to all the gates.
Do you think large guys dont know how to do it? Its such a silly understanding, if you give good oral she wont mind your size.
I think thats bull. I think EVERYTHING depends on the person. If she is a good/descent person who is not obsessed about size, then oral will only be plus.
But if your doing some slut, i dont think oral will make a difference. You can go down on her for hours and she will still want a huge dick inside of her.
Oh and i would like to add, not all women seek strong confident men. Some want guys that are unsure of themselves, shy, quiet etc.....I guess some girls feel its easier to deal with guys like that. My point is, every single girl is different. Our advice does not mean shit, you have to find out what shes really like.

BindiCat · 05-27-2011, 07:41 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by crazy8

Some of you make it seem like giving a girl oral is the key to all the gates.
Do you think large guys dont know how to do it? Its such a silly understanding, if you give good oral she wont mind your size.
I think thats bull. I think EVERYTHING depends on the person. If she is a good/descent person who is not obsessed about size, then oral will only be plus.
But if your doing some slut, i dont think oral will make a difference. You can go down on her for hours and she will still want a huge dick inside of her.
Oh and i would like to add, not all women seek strong confident men. Some want guys that are unsure of themselves, shy, quiet etc.....I guess some girls feel its easier to deal with guys like that. My point is, every single girl is different. Our advice does not mean shit, you have to find out what shes really like.

I agree to an extent. You have to look at the individual. I was just talking in generalities, though. This is a girl that the OP likes and has been spending some time with, so I wasn't thinking about advice in terms of "hey, I'm gonna go bang some whore". That's going to make a huge difference. Yeah, if you're having a one night stand with some slut, then I completely agree with you. But if it's with a girl you're looking at maybe having a relationship with, then, assuming she's a decent girl, she's going to be much more willing to be understanding about things if she's really into you. Especially if you show her that you're interested in making sure she has a good time. It's easy for a chick to go out and get a quick fuck. But to find someone who actually cares about you and is willing to invest their time in you is special, and it says a lot about a person.

peanut2 · 05-27-2011, 09:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BindiCat

I agree to an extent. You have to look at the individual. I was just talking in generalities, though. This is a girl that the OP likes and has been spending some time with, so I wasn't thinking about advice in terms of "hey, I'm gonna go bang some whore". That's going to make a huge difference. Yeah, if you're having a one night stand with some slut, then I completely agree with you. But if it's with a girl you're looking at maybe having a relationship with, then, assuming she's a decent girl, she's going to be much more willing to be understanding about things if she's really into you. Especially if you show her that you're interested in making sure she has a good time. It's easy for a chick to go out and get a quick fuck. But to find someone who actually cares about you and is willing to invest their time in you is special, and it says a lot about a person.

Ya I can see the difference if it was just sex then I would look at it way different! This is a girl I want to have a long relationship with. Thank you Bindicat for the informative instructions about what to do down there! I can't believe how many responses I have gotten. I appreciate all of it. This is alot of things to think about!

BindiCat · 05-27-2011, 11:05 PM

No problem. I like helping people out if I can.

Road · 05-28-2011, 05:21 AM

Yea I totally agree with crazy. At the end of the day, who you are to yourself and to woman matter the most. We are going to run into women who will laugh at our size, that is a given. But after that fall we must not be hard on ourselves. we gotta get up and hope for the best next time. I'm slowly realizing this, but at the time sometime I have moments were I completely hate my size and myself because of it.

05-27-2011, 05:01 AM	#21
FLTINYROCKET Tiny Dick Advanced Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: South Florida Posts: 115	I have a smaller dick and I can tell you that when I was your age I faced the same situation. The first issue about when to teller her or let her know depends on the situation. The best way I addressed it was by mentioning it to her while kissing and being upfront about it. Not necessarily being appologetic but having some humor about it helped. The second issue about cumming fast happened to me also when young. What I learned was to realease some of the pressue by masturbating about 6 hours before going out. That way I would not be too anxious and cum so quickly. Having a lot of foreplay works for me too before penetration. Learning to provide oral satisfaction helps also and your gf should be happy with your overall peformance. Hope it helps.

05-27-2011, 05:02 AM	#22
Bigman73 Tiny Dick Novice Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: nj Posts: 29	Hey Cat since you just described how to eat pussy would you mind telling us how you give head ;p

05-27-2011, 05:14 AM	#23
BindiCat Tiny Dick Advanced Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 161	I don't really have a method. I just kind of go at it. I do make sure to get my lips and tongue involved, swirl around a lot, deep throat when appropriate (usually when it's not expected), and I don't neglect the balls. So I don't do the whole "I'm going to rigidly bob up and down and that's it" thing, unless that's how the guy wants it done (or unless I feel like getting face-fucked, but that's different since I'm not really doing the moving). Which works out since my jaw doesn't get tired nearly as quick, so I can go for a lot longer. It's a win-win.

05-27-2011, 05:57 AM	#24
Road Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 671	I enjoy reading woman talk about how to work the clit. Turn on!

05-27-2011, 06:21 PM	#25
jimmy dicky Tiny Dick Novice Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 34	hot damn! Bindicat i bow before you!

05-27-2011, 06:31 PM	#26
crazy8 Tiny Dick Ultimate User Join Date: Feb 2010 Posts: 462	Some of you make it seem like giving a girl oral is the key to all the gates. Do you think large guys dont know how to do it? Its such a silly understanding, if you give good oral she wont mind your size. I think thats bull. I think EVERYTHING depends on the person. If she is a good/descent person who is not obsessed about size, then oral will only be plus. But if your doing some slut, i dont think oral will make a difference. You can go down on her for hours and she will still want a huge dick inside of her. Oh and i would like to add, not all women seek strong confident men. Some want guys that are unsure of themselves, shy, quiet etc.....I guess some girls feel its easier to deal with guys like that. My point is, every single girl is different. Our advice does not mean shit, you have to find out what shes really like.

05-27-2011, 11:05 PM	#29
BindiCat Tiny Dick Advanced Join Date: Feb 2011 Posts: 161	No problem. I like helping people out if I can.

05-28-2011, 05:21 AM	#30
Road Tiny Dick Extraordinaire Join Date: Sep 2010 Posts: 671	Yea I totally agree with crazy. At the end of the day, who you are to yourself and to woman matter the most. We are going to run into women who will laugh at our size, that is a given. But after that fall we must not be hard on ourselves. we gotta get up and hope for the best next time. I'm slowly realizing this, but at the time sometime I have moments were I completely hate my size and myself because of it.