You're probably right, conditioning and scaring starts early.

With most visible issues of people I can happily live with, no problem. I do like slim women, not that I don't have my preferences but that being said, I once fell deeply in love with a quite overweight lady but she did have the most beautiful face and hair. It didn't go very far in the end, maybe just as well, otherwise I might never have met my wife.

Big boobs, small boobs. Like Stoutman says in his signature about penises, they are still boobs. So long as they are natural, I'm fine with whatever they look like. Besides, have a couple of kids, give it some time and they all obey gravity and that too is just fine with me. Anything but those horrible recyled rubber enhancements. No, never been into fondling recycled bicyle tires.

Big lips, now that could refer to at least two different sets. Again, personally, I just love women with protruding labia. Very sensitive, very playful, no end of enjoyment to be derived from those and the other ones too. LOL

Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I've never been one for 'going on the prowl' for one night stands but rather first discover and built a loving relationship and then off into the bunk. And then, any woman will be stunningly beautiful. You just got to love those hormones and neurotransmitters.

The 'lips' one is a tricky one, at least guys have an idea of what an average cock length is, we girls dont really have anything to base the size of ours on lol! I've been told mine are big but maybe he's only ever seen small ones, difficult to know?
Most guys seem to have a real thing for big boobs, i've always had insults for being smaller, but no way i'd go fake!

Surely you've seen pictures or videos of other girls to compare yourself. It really doesn't matter. I think guys who would give a damn are very few and far between. To most of us (straight) guys the vagina is a thing of beauty no matter what it looks like.


"Most guys seem to have a real thing for boobs" is more like it. I bet if you took a poll there would be more guys in the "I like them small to medium" category then there would be in the "I like then big". When I like a girl I hardly pay any attention to her breast size.

Was it guys or girls that insulted you about your boobs? either way i can't believe people do things like that. I've never made any comment positive or negative to a woman about her breasts.

@ SexyKaty

Virgin4 and Hoverfly are quite right I think. Most men I know, although they do have their preferences (may be better called phantasms or desires), don't care that much about breasts or labials size. The package as a whole, along with attitude, is what really does it.

People who mock others with things like "small boobs" or "small cock" are usually shallow people who have some problems of their own. Granted, they disturb others when doing that. But someone has to see beyond that.

As well, corporate societies are there to sell us "the perfect body" and many people fall for that instead of understanding that the message is wrong. This has screwed up many people.

The bottom line is, as you say yourself, don't go fake (neither physiologically nor psychologically). Be yourself, accept yourself with all the good and less good parts, work with that and enjoy yourself in the mean time.

All that said, with a smile like yours, I'm pretty sure you can melt most guys hearth very easily, no matter what their size are!:)

There is one feeling I can't shake, and that is with all the insecurities women have, it doesn't amount to that of the mindset of a small dick. That's just me.

I have a question for Katy, what do your friends say on penis size?

I agree. Without wishing to minimize the things women have to go through I don't think any of it compares to having to live in this world today as a man with a small dick.

You are correct about me!

I love small boobs, probably the smaller, the better.
My wife is small. Two of my three daughters are small.
While they were home, it was a joy. :)

One of my favorite songs on the Dr. Demento program, was Sulu singing "Small busted women have big hearts too".

Oh, I never, ever, said anything about a woman's boobs; why?

There was actually a rather shallow and stupid comment about labia size in that programme 'The perfect Vagina'. Some painter/decorator mentioned he would never have sex with a woman if she had an 'ugly' fanny and he was referring to protruding labia.

Clearly an idiot, knowing little or nothing about female physiology but nevertheless, that's what it was all about and judging by the yearly increase in labiaplasty in the UK, maybe not as far fetched as some might think.

BTW. Please be sure that you know the difference. You can't see the vagina, it's hidden inside the femail body, what you can see is the vulva, ie. the externally visible part of a females sexual organs.

Virgin, Yeah i've seen videos etc, seen plnty girls i the changingrooms, seen allsorts of shapes n sizes, but theres still no one to tell you what average is?
It was mostly guys that insulted me about my breast size, most had a thing for bigger ones!

Road, Well from what i hear from most girls is that they like an averged size, anything from 4-6inches, some like them smaller n some like them huge, we all tend to talk about it.
Well all i'd say is you can hide a small cock, its difficult to hide a flat chest lol, it tends too be one of the first things a guy looks at!

Thanks for the kind words guys!

Well I guess average would be somewhere in the middle of the two extremes.

This I don't understand. I know a lot of guys are complete assholes so I guess it's not surprising there would be some that would do this to a woman. I have never witnessed it myself but I take your word and the word of other women that it does indeed happen.

smaller than 4-6 inches? who are these women? they should be given goddess status and worshiped by men everywhere. Let yourself be known ladies.

Of course there's a flip side to that. Because you can't hide your breasts and their size you never have to go through the moment of reveal. By the time it comes to getting down to business the guy already knows pretty much what is in store as far as breasts go. In fact by the time the guy speaks to you the first time he's probably already made up his mind as to whether he is satisfied with your breasts. A woman doesn't know what she's going to get until that moment.


Glenn