Red

Yeah I know...but when I get all worked up, rational thought tends to go out the window.

but you are right, better to make your own posts than respond, I think. I should point out I've used CL for more basic reasons selling/buying, and have learned to spot the fakes. But it's always possible to miss one if it's really done well. Truth be told, I have given up on online dating. Too many that could be if it weren't for the hundreds if not thousands of miles distance, and when I have tried to make it work, it failed before I could get to meet up so I won't waste my time unless he/she is within at least 50 mile radius.