SliderCoaster

Just as long as you don't spend so much time trying to prevent everyone knowing about your dick size that it becomes more important than being with someone.

Road

Yes, we can't let our small matter run our entire lives. Easier said than done I know.

crazy8

Hey road, we are all those things you mentioned, and more.
ofcourse its different for normal guys. Even if the girl does tell eevryone he is small, who cares? Chances are his friends know ehs not small, chances are he has slept with other girls that also talk. So if hung guy having an ex telling everyone that they are small, well to them its just a laughing matter. To guys like us, this could mean end of the world.

Yes i agree, having a small dick should not toally run your life. But, how many of us can live amongst people who know that they are small? Have friends know? Have an ex tell it to people. Would you like to be on the outside of the inside joke when people put their index and thumb fingers together, show a babys dick and laugh? laugh at you? I mean this shit is rediculous, but sadly true. Especially younger guys who are still in highschool.
My point, if you lucky enough to stumble upon a girl who had values in life, and is really into you. Then it makes sense to go for it. Take that risk. But if its a girl who sleeps around, knows all your friends etc....come on man do you really think she would enjoy a small dick, probably not. And ofcourse she is going to tell people. If you want pussy there are other ways to get it and not have to jeopordize your pride and self respect.

Road

What if a guy is awesome with his size, as the saying goes, quality over quantity. Should he still worry over his size? And you make a lot of valid points crazy. I wish I knew more on how the mind of a woman works. Maybe in the end size didn't matter....who knows.

BindiCat

I wouldn't tell her beforehand. That makes it seem like you're completely preoccupied with your size and lack confidence (whether it's true or not, it's not something she needs to be thinking before she's had a chance to fuck you). This is a complete turn off, whether the guy doing it is tiny or huge.

You need to go in there completely confident in your abilities (fake it if you have to), because that in itself will turn her on. Study up on your technique (mouth, hands, penis; all of it), and get her super turned on (and preferably get her off) before you even whip out your penis. If you've sufficiently wow'd her already, your size is going to be way less of an issue. If it's even an issue at all.

BindiCat

There are other parts of the body to use your mouth on besides the vulva.

But I do understand some girls can be a bit against the idea of oral sex at first. But with proper seduction beforehand, most of them will still let it happen, atleast for a little bit. And if the guy knows what he's doing, that little bit is really all he needs.

Here's what I've found, both from my own experience and that of other women:

Almost all women who say they don't like oral sex are either too uncomfortable in their own body to let themselves enjoy it, have never had it done properly, or some combination of the two. Loosen her up (bring out the alcohol if need be), make sure you know exactly how to give exceptional oral, and go at her. If you truly do know what you're doing, she'll change her mind about oral after a few strokes.

peanut2

I have never gave a girl oral before so I don't know how good I will be at it but I am reading up on it. I looked on the internet and there are a million sites showing technique and what to do. If I do it right she could actually have an Orgasm before I even get my dick out! Not to sound dumb but you all are giving me good advice and I just have never done any of this before.

peanut2

I am the op! I don't know what I would do because I have never gave a woman oral before or even had intercourse so I guess I would just keep going if I started and she seemed to be enjoying it.

BindiCat

You would be correct, peanut. If she's into it, keep doing what you're doing. If for some reason she's so rank that you just can't stand it, then slowly start exchanging the tongue for your fingers and start messing with her g spot.

But freshness shouldn't be a problem. If a chick is going out on a date, she primps, so it wouldn't be a problem anyway. But if a chick is going out on a date that she thinks could possibly end in sex, she's going to do extra primping and make sure she's as fresh and groomed as possible. Especially if it's with a guy she's never had sex with before.

As far as technique goes, the most important thing you need to know, if you learn nothing else, and I cannot stress this enough: You need to know exactly, without a doubt, where her clitoris is. You'd think (or I would, atleast) that it should be fairly obvious where it is, especially if you've been looking at pictures or whatever. But apparently it's not. And I can't even describe how frustrating it is when you're being eaten out by a guy who has no clue where the thing is. Us women just get really frustrated really fast, and all we can think is "wow, this guy has no idea what he's doing". You won't get her off, it puts her in a bad mood, and it pretty much ruins the whole experience.

Other than that, don't be really rough with your tongue and lash at her clit like you see in porn. Doing that for a moment to mix things up is fine, and can be really good if done properly, but don't do it the whole time. It's another one of those "wow, this guy has no idea what he's doing" situations. Use a gentle tongue. Think of it sort of like this: you want to coax her clitoris out of hiding and make it seek out your tongue, not the other way around. By doing that, you're giving her clit a chance to stop and think, "Hey, this is pretty nice", and seek you out for more, which means she's going to enjoy it more. If you have to search her out and immediately start bombarding her, that's going to make her clitoris retreat to safety, and she's not going to enjoy herself nearly as much.

Bigman73

Seriously dude since your lacking make sure you pay attention to what cat is saying. I'm small but i make ladies cum with my mouth before my dick makes an appearance. And most importantly have fun doing it man because stressful sex isnt good sex.

ps hangover 2 was hilarious