Road

I want to make an obvious but needed statement:

We/Me/You/Us have a small penis. We are below the average in size. Media, tv, men who brag, bitches, have let it known that this is a "bad" thing. Not sure how true or if that's true at all. What I do know is if you let it get to you and affect you enough you shut down from society and women, you are in fact losing. This hasn't always been my mindset, it wasn't like this last year, but as I grow I find out how much it may not matter, it's all in the head.

As for the girl in the second documentary, she seemed like a bitch and judgmental, she isn't the only person like that in the world. The nurse said it was small, well it was flaccid, I remember the guy saying he was around 6-7 inches erect. The clay model girls said for real realtionships, size wasn't a main factor. If you want a one night stand though, I suggest look into how to give amazing sex non-penis wise. I have no sex experience , but I feel I'm right about this one.

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hoverfly

Nice one, Road, especially the change in your signature. I like it.

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crazy8

No, no, no, no, no nooo. You never ever have have non penis wise sex with a one night stand. You crazy man? Thats how you end up catching something.
One night stands are just not for guys like us. if those Women are looking for a big dick to fuck for a night, let them find a big dick.

Road

Yea hover I copied and pasted two different quotes from people an article about menwith small sizes, I really liked them so I combined them. And yea another very good point. As for the concept on sex and one night stands goes, how much can you trust a stranger man or women for just sex? I'm a virgin and I don't give a fuck for sex with a stranger, I'd rather have a FWB with some girl I know. Rather trust a professional call girl than a one night stand.

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Road

I Also want to make one more than, show me a person under 35 that doesnt have insecurities. No one is perfect.

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jobleau

Insecurities have nothing to do with age. It's in your head. Kids have some, you have some, at 54, I have some, and everyone I know has some... I never met anyone who does not have some...

As you say, no one is perfect. And, somehow, that's the beauty of it. If we were all perfect and agree on all the same things, to me, life would be so boring I'd shoot myself.

As Hoverfly mentioned, nice signature, especially that part: "If we don't accept ourselves, for what we are, then how can we expect anyone else to accept us?"

Road

Yup. I don't even remember where I saw the quotes I read so many articles on random stuff sometime. I also don't want to make it seem as if I'm completely over my small size. I do wonder and it does get to me every now and then but I don't let it control me. Dressing nice and having girls (older woman sometimes!) check me out helped my self-esteem. I'm still a shy guy
most of the time though.

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Road

Double.

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sexykaty

We girls are much more insecure than guys, or so it comes across! Alot of us blame fashion mags, i dont personally think it has anything to do with it, the pressures start much younger than that, usually at school. It ranges from are you too fat/thin, are your boobs too small/big n saggy, do u have a flat/fat ass, are your 'lips' too long/short, do you have nice legs.....

I always got inults about my small boobs and got told i was too thin!
When we were in the changinrooms at gym one of the girls said i had big 'lips'!
These things all stick in your head!

jobleau

Sad! Especially that you just described the body type I prefer.